Sexual compulsivity is continued engagement in any sexual behavior that is secretive, shameful, abusive, manipulative, and/or deceitful, in spite of negative consequences. For women, it often means receiving a “high” from flirtation or seduction, making attempts at power and control through sexuality, mistaking sex for love, having multiple affairs, using sexual energy inappropriately, violating sexual boundaries, sexual risk taking, exchanging sex for gifts or money, obsession or preoccupation with seduction or sex, and multiple one night stands. Drug and alcohol misuse and/or addiction often accompany these behaviors.
Signs of Sexual Compulsivity
Recognizing the obvious signs of sexual compulsivity can help identify if a patient has crossed the line from a normal enjoyment of sex to an addiction that needs professional assistance. Indications of problematic sexual behavior include:
- Loss of control of behaviors
- Preoccupation with sexual acting out behaviors
- Significant adverse consequences
- Continuation despite consequences
Women who struggle with sexual compulsivity will continue to engage in sexual behavior despite financial problems, potential arrest, health risks or broken relationships. The condition can destroy relationships and cause an individual to feel enslaved by their addiction to sexual thoughts and acts. Sex is part of a normal, healthy life; however, when sexual activities or thoughts become consuming or habit forming, it crosses the line into an intimacy disorder .
Recovery for Women with Sexual Compulsivity
Recovery from love addiction or sexual compulsivity requires that a woman learns how to set and maintain boundaries, how to get needs met appropriately, how to esteem and value herself from the inside, and what healthy sexuality means for her. It also involves addressing emotional trauma through a combination of therapy with a CSAT who specializes in female aexual xompulsivity and love addiction, group therapy and a 12-step program.Visit us here or feel free to phone us at 877-472-6760.